Sadje is the host: https://lifeafter50forwomen.com/2023/05/07/sunday-poser-131-people-pleaser/

I do like to please people but I have learned just over the last decade or so that I need to be kind to myself and I need to think about the repercussions. It seems like when my sister used to say that I “wore Rose colored glasses” that this is sort of the same thing. I like to see the best side of things and encourage positive things. My last therapist taught me however to ask myself how I really felt. I think being a people pleaser isn’t as bad as taking advantage of a people pleaser.