Sunday Poser

Sadje is our hostess for the Sunday Poser question This week her question is:

How quick are you in admitting your mistakes?

I will definitely admit to my mistakes as soon as I make them. I have found myself wanting to think up ways to justify the mistake or make it lesser than maybe it is, but in the end just saying “I made a mistake” is so much easier than coming up with some story to enrich it.

A perfect example is the other night. I was cleaning the pool and because there is a small leak somewhere, we constantly have to fill it a little. After skimming the junk off the top I turned off the water and went inside. I thought I turned off the water. About an hour later I was in the bathroom washing my small paint brush and I heard what sounded like the hose running. Yup, you guessed it! I must have turned it on higher instead of off because the pool was almost overflowing! Woops.

Now, that isn’t a perfect example as it didn’t really affect anyone or anything like that but it is so much easier to say “I almost overflowed the pool because I didn’t turn the water off correctly” than to go on about how I thought it was off but maybe it wasn’t, I didn’t hear the water running, I never make mistakes like that…etc.

Additionally, I would rather say that I made a mistake than for someone to “figure out” it was me! That seems too sketchy and I hate liars….just saying.

Sunday Poser # 74

Sadje has the question here https://lifeafter50forwomen.com/2022/04/03/sunday-poser-74/

Do you like using emojis in your post, or texts?

I am a definite yes!

I have found that sometimes no words are needed when someone sends you a funny text….just give it a laughing emoji. Obviously, if someone is sharing a joke they found it funny too, but there doesn’t have to be a discussion about it.
Emojis are good for those dreadfully sad messages…my dog died yesterday (Only an example!)...A sad emoji works best. I mean how many times can one person hear that someone is sorry to hear that they lost their best pal. Any dog owner knows how bad that sucks and it doesn’t need words. It just needs the acknowledgement that “hey, I get it and I know this is the worst time for you”.
Finally, I think the emoji is a good way to show someone that you think they did a great job at something because they did it, even if you don’t necessarily think it’s as good as they do. I know that I don’t want someone reading one of my poems and saying, “you know, I think it’s great that you joined the challenge but your poem wasn’t really that good so I don’t want to say great poem, because that would be an outright lie…” Just give me a thumbs up so I know someone read it. I’m not out to publish everything I write so I don’t expect a critique with every post. Just saying………

Sunday Poser # 68

Sadje is the host of our weekly question. Find it here

Probably not as much as I should be. On New Years Day my wallet was stolen. I immediately called all the credit cards and all that. I know I had some other info in there but I think it would be useless to the local wallet-thief. I’m hoping it is all in the garbage dump, even though I wish it had just been mailed back to me or something…bygones.

Online I try to keep my passwords “tricky”. I mean most of them are things that unless you were in my brain there is really no way for you to figure it out.
Any social media is a risk in and of itself so I’m bad there too. I sell on Etsy so a lot of my information is public.

Overall, I try to do what I can. I’m not a fanatic nor do I give information easily…that is what I like to hope.

Sunday Poser # 67

Sadje hosts the Sunday Poser. You can find it here

What are your thoughts about Valentine’s Day?

I remember as a kid loving to write everyone’s names on the valentines for school and then taking all mine home to read them. They were all the same, I think it was just to see “how many people liked me” or something. I mean the kids were supposed to give one to every classmate. Sort of pointless.

When my kids were little they weren’t too excited about them but made a fuss about buying the ones that had candy with them. I remember always being a little cheap about it but I think they were happy.

As an adult I always liked to hear “Happy Valentine’s Day” but always felt bad that Bob, my late husband, would want to spend three times the amount on a bunch of roses just because it was the “right thing to do”. I mean he meant well, I know that, but I always felt a little guilty because the price was only high for that one day.

Last year, David proposed the day before Valentine’s Day so we went shopping for wedding rings on Valentine’s Day. Spending the day together is enough for me.

I bought my dad a bunch of stuff for Valentine’s Day…I made a bucket with all these tinsley things, for his apartment. I also gave him a rose that lights up. The rose he put on his walker. He is like a little kid now so I know he loves getting the heart embellished stuff.

I used to buy my kids a gift, I don’t remember if I did every year or not and when I stopped or whatever…The day is really just a commercialized holiday like Halloween. I am thankful if I get something but certainly don’t expect it and don’t want anyone to spend extra just because there is a heart on it.

Sunday Poser # 65

Welcome back to another Sunday Poser. Sadje is our host of this thought provoking challenge.

What are your views about the advertisements constantly shown on tv or splashed across the websites we visit, including Facebook, etc?

I must say that I am a marketers dream come true. Although I know that half the stuff I see is only half true I fall for so much of it. The one thing I do though is check pricing on things I might buy. By the time I am done checking various sites for different prices I realize that it is a waste of money and move on by. I also like the “As Seen on TV” stuff, which usually turns out to be crap. A few things have been awesome like The Original Vidalia Chop Wizard. Seriously, this is one of the best kitchen gadgets I have ever had and I used to sell Pampered Chef!

One of the things that immediately comes to mind that sucks is Egglettes Egg Cooker – Hard Boiled Eggs without the Shell

Another place I get sucked in is on Snapchat and Instagram. They show these things that people are using and I watch and look and want all the stupid stuff.

I could go on and on about different things I have bought and tried, saved and tossed, but I will save you the pain…

Sunday Poser # 64

Welcome back to another Sunday Poser https://lifeafter50forwomen.com/2022/01/23/sunday-poser-64/

This week my question is;

What are some of the things that people do that make you feel uncomfortable?

I think one of the biggest things is fight in public. I don’t mean fist fight, I mean full out arguing. Everyone is going to disagree in their lives but screaming back and forth is not something that is going to help. I especially dislike, almost hate, when parents yell at their kids to “be quiet” in a store. First of all, you are yelling which is not quiet and there are other ways to quiet kids down. Working with behavioral issues I have found that whispering to kids is one of the best ways to get them to lower their voices. They want to hear what grown-ups have to say and if they are screaming and you are whispering they have to stop to hear you. I also think that sometimes a grown-up just needs to listen one time to what the kid is saying and put an end to whatever is being yelled about. For example, I have heard kids screaming, crying, yelling, whatever, that they want something. The parent ignores the behavior thinking it will help it to stop. Well, the intensity is going to grow until the child feels like he/she is being heard and it is acknowledged. I think that is normal behavior. If they continue and it becomes a true behavior, do the old trick and walk out of the store without buying a thing; that almost always works!

Sunday Poser # 63

Welcome back to another Sunday Poser

Sadje is the host!

Well, the best answer would be to complete my blogging schedule on the days they are scheduled for! Hahaha! A day late is better than never…..

It’s not so much that I forget the same thing on a regular basis but what I do forget is to write myself notes because I always forget to remind myself of stuff. For example, I have crazy weird dreams sometimes. I have been meaning to put a notepad by the bed so that I can write down the names of the people I dream about. I mean the other night I had a dream about one of my close friends and her mother. I don’t even remember thinking about her per say recently. But often people from my past pop into my dreams and I am surprised that they were part of my dream. I just thought it would be neat to keep track of the people over a longer length of time. Strange, I know but….

Sunday Poser # 30

FInd it here: https://lifeafter50forwomen.com/2021/05/30/sunday-poser-30/

I don’t know if they are always 100% correct but I think they are pretty close. That being said if someone is completely opposite of what they gave as a first impression doesn’t that leave one to wonder if their initial meeting was totally fabricated? And if it was, are they that good at pulling the wool over peoples’ eyes? I think first impressions are not to be totally trusted but then again how do you know?