Do you consider yourself today to be more of a spontaneous person or more of a stable person? Which characteristic in others, spontaneity or stability, do you prefer? Why? https://fivedotoh.com/2021/10/13/fandangos-provocative-question-139/
I don’t know if I would say “stable” but I am a planner. I do like to know what I am doing and when. I do love some spontaneous things but not when I am doing something that I have scheduled! I would automatically think it is a control thing, why I like everything planned, but some of it is my PTSD. I don’t like the unexpected bad things which makes me leary of unexpected anythings!
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I am like you, but my adult-onset A.D.D. makes me spontaneous whether I like it or not. Not ALWAYS spontaneous, but sometimes it’s hard to choose a solid path!
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I make lists, I make plans. My friend saintvi likes to fly by the seat of her pants! We are rubbing off on each other – she now makes hotel reservations and I am willing to jump in the car and go on an adventure on short notice! It is the best of both worlds.
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It is good to have that friend to balance it all out! I find that I almost become the spontaneous one between me and David as he is a planner too.
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