I try not to hold onto anger or any type of grudge. I do hold onto memories which can make hurt come back but not in a way to treat someone in any type of way or show them that I am still hurt.
I try not to hold onto anger or any type of grudge. I do hold onto memories which can make hurt come back but not in a way to treat someone in any type of way or show them that I am still hurt.
Stine Writing 
I try not to hold grudges because I feel it is a waste of my energy and I could be putting my energy to better use!
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exactly
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I try not to hold a grudge on anything but the human side of me, can Harbor ill feelings before I realize I don’t want to act out on them. I think it is very helpful to be able to talk to the person that has seemingly done me wrong because maybe it was a misunderstanding or an oversight and I didn’t see it correctly.
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You know I tried with my sister. I told her we both did things that were hurtful so why don’t we just agree to put it all aside and start over and get along like we used to and she told me no, she didn’t want to have anything to do with me. Sadly, if I told you what she did to me it completely trumps anything I ever did or said to her. She is pure evil and that proved it.
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I try not to hold grudges and tend to have a somewhat short memory of bad things so I often forget about things that might have resulted in a grudge. Still, there are some things that I have a difficult time letting go of and then I just try to avoid putting myself into situations with the persons who have done something against me. Grudges are negative energy that I don’t need.
Lee
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A grudge? I wouldn’t call it that. However, I am mad at several family members.
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I do think being mad and holding a grudge are different. It seems like being mad means there has been no attempted resolution where as a grudge is more of not letting go after a resolution was attempted
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