Wanting the perfect wedding was always a dream. College degree, good job, my own apartment, finding the love of my life and then the ultimate “big wedding”. It never occurred to me that this might only be a dream, but since the age of six when I was the flower girl in my sister’s wedding, I dreamed it. Logistics never a thought in my head because I was a goal oriented person and so far at twenty-three, everything was right on schedule. I was just settling in to the perfect job and the chance at a promotion when he walked into my office. You know that time you are busy shuffling paperwork and you feel something in the air that causes you to look up? Well I did, and there he was…every goal so carefully planned, left my mind. Later as we decided to spend our lives together, the wedding…